3 Months

3 Months today! No Doctor appointment this month, but Ashley is about 10.5-11 pounds and you can tell she's growing. She's been sleeping about 8-10 hours at night but still working on a better day time nap routine.

The newborn clothes were finally packed away but she is still so skinny that the size 1 diapers are too big!

She smiles all the time and has "silent" laughs. She "talks" all the time now and learned how to scream in high pitch (which is done in random spurts). Ashley is obsessed with her hands - putting them in her mouth and grabbing and even pulling at her toys. We'll post videos soon!

Guestbook Entries

From: Grandparents AndersonFriday, August 7th 2009

Welcome Ashley Nicole! We are so anxious to meet you and so glad that you and your Mom are doing well. Congratulations to your Mom and Dad. We send our love and will see you all very soon!

• From: Aunt LauraSunday, August 9th 2009

  Dear Ashley,
  
  From your tiny feet, to your little nose and puffy cheeks, you are perfect in every way. I can't wait to come see you in a few weeks and I'm so happy you're here. Congratulations to your new Mom and Dad!
  
  Love,
  Aunt Laura

• From: Clare and HansSaturday, August 8th 2009

  Congratulations! Ashley is beautiful! Can't wait to meet her.
  Our love to you and your family.
  

• From: the H familySaturday, August 8th 2009

  happy baby!
  Baby Ashley Nicole , Shannon and Pete’s babe...
  always nice to see the perfect miniatures...
  the square chests, the scrunched legs...
  and feet that can bend so that they can touch shinbones....
  magic of compression......
  enjoy the peach fuzz on the face,
  the beauty of the perfect lips, the softest of skin,
  the distinct sound of a newborn crying and
  the wonderment of a toothless mouth not yet able to tell the secrets of heaven....
  the crinkles of an ear,
  the thinness of a heel,
  the callous-free footpads....
  the thinness of a toenail or a fingernail...
  the jerk of arm and leg stretches.....
  in both happiness and in the "feed me" mode.....
  and then too, in the happy " I have no clothes on" wiggling and freedom mode....
  
  a mom doing the diapering, the dressing, the thisNthats, all the while with one loose hand lightly touching the babe.......
  
  the special palm placement around the back of the neck when holding the babe in a 'sitting' position.....
  
  that other palm CHIN-CHEST HOLD when turning them over...
  
  a newborn neck, free of the muscles to support the heaviness of their essence ~ their head
  
  little 'cheesies' in the cracks, the folds of the skin....
  
  the soft spot, which magically becomes one of the strongest places of our bodies
  
  discussions of alcohol vs plain old water!
  
  the magic of a simultaneously sucking, swallowing and breathing baby, an ability lost as we get older...
  
  a baby fist, not the defensive fist of an adult.... thumb in vs thumb out......
  
  a flat nose bottom......
  
  peach fuzz all over...... sometimes glistening on the shoulders, the forehead, the arms, the ears...
  a new voice in your family....
  
  
  and just think....
  she will never be smaller than in the photos you take this day...
  
  ~ valentine
  
  
  
  and the wish~
  
  
  Care for the creatures, the earth and the sky
  
  Make good luck for others and you will make good luck for yourself
  
  Take care of your actions during the daylight and you will sleep calmly and peacefully under the moon and stars
  
  Know that the horizon exists even though you cannot always see it - keep striving
  
  And, always let the sunshine grace your face
  
  ~Valentine
  

• From: Bernie McGuireSaturday, August 8th 2009

  Congratulations and Best Wishes! God Bless your beautiful Ashley Nicole! We'll have to teach her to play Bunco as soon as we can! Enjoy your little bundle of joy!

• From: Teri & David SmithSaturday, August 8th 2009

  Congratulations to all of you! What a precious gift! May God bless!

• From: Amy & ScottSaturday, August 8th 2009

  Ashley is adorable!!
  
  Congratulations on the new addition to your family.
  
  

• From: Ann GonskiSaturday, August 8th 2009

  The miracle never ceases to amaze me. She is lovely and perfection! Many blessings to you and baby Ashley. All my Love, Ann

• From: TriciaFriday, August 7th 2009

  Shannon and Pete,
  Congrats! And welcome baby Ashley! I cannot wait to see all of you and get my first snuggles in! Rest up and I will see you all soon! I can't believe she's here!
  
  lots of love!

• From: Grandparents BraunFriday, August 7th 2009

  Dear Ashley,
  Well, we just got home from seeing you for the first time and you look perfect! You never once opened your eyes the whole time we were there (your first few hours), but we had your Dad take a picture of you in Grandpa Dale's arms and you squinted your eyes shut really hard when the flash went off. We are so in love with you already. Tell mom to take care of herself and tell mom and dad to get rest as often as they can because you will be up and active before they know it.
  Love, Grandma Maureen & Grandpa Dale

• From: Jamie MillsFriday, August 7th 2009

  Welcome to the world little one....my are you beautiful...can't wait to meet you. Congratulations Pete and Shannon. We are so happy for you both!

  
  

  • From: Grandparents Gail & Hank & G. Grandmother WagnerTuesday, October 13th 2009

    We've just returned from a wonderful visit with Ashley and her parents. She is starting to smile, exercise her arms and legs, and bat at her mobile animals hanging over her crib. Her great grandmother Wagner was especially happy to be able to make the trip from Maryland to Chicago to meet her first little great grandchild! Ashley is very fortunate to have such loving and dedicated parents as Shannon and Peter.

  • From: Anne and Don AndersonMonday, September 28th 2009

    We have been enjoying the photos and video and only wish we could meet Ashley in person! You guys look like you're doing a great job. How about a photo of the two of you with Ashley?

  • From: Grandma MaureenFriday, September 4th 2009

    It looks as if she likes to pose for pictures.

  • From: Alex NewtonMonday, August 10th 2009

    Congrats Shannon and Pete, welcome Ashley!

  • From: Kaitlin KnottMonday, August 10th 2009

    Congratulations!! She's beautiful! Glad to see everyone's doing well

  • From: Allison S.Monday, August 10th 2009

    Congratulations and best wishes! She is beautiful!!!

  • From: Christine VanHyfteMonday, August 10th 2009

    Congrats Guys! Glad that Momma and baby are doing well.

  • From: Andrew, Joyce, and AbeSunday, August 9th 2009

    Welcome! We can't wait to meet you!
    
    Love,
    Andrew, Joyce, and Abe

  • From: Uncle SteveSunday, August 9th 2009

    Welcome Ashley...
    Your parents are going to spoil you and you are going to make your 2 older sisters very jealous. But don't worry, they're dogs compared to you.
    
    Congratulations to Shannon and Pete

  • From: Uncle DaveSunday, August 9th 2009

    Congrats Pete and Shan. We'll see you and Ashley very soon.

2 Months

Ashley had her 2 month check up on Friday. She had two shots, one in each leg. She was very sleepy and sore for a good 24 hours. We had to wake her up to eat! She's still in the 40th percentile at 9 pounds 5 ounces and 22 inches. She's getting bigger every day.

Pete was on a business trip last week and Ashley and I were on our own from Monday through Friday. We made it out of the house a few times and only had one meltdown - from lack of sleep.

Pete's parents came to visit along with Ashley's Great-Grandma Wagner! This is the first visit with her one of three great grandmas. Ashley was a little out of it on Friday from her shots but she made up for it later with lots of smiles!

One Month Old

Ashley had her 5 week check up today and is 8 pounds 1 ounce, which is in the 40th percentile. She was 21.5 inches long and her head was 34.25 cm (up an inch since her last appointment). He said she's small but growing very well (and the length and head can be off since they are not as accurate). Maybe she'll fit into some of her 0-3 month clothes soon!

She also got her 2nd Hep B shot - the first shot I've been present for! I've never heard her scream so loud or turn so red! Poor thing! All the women in the office said they make the guy nurse give the shots!

In the past week or so, I think she's realized that she has lungs and is learning to make noises. She moves more than I though babies could as she ends up at the bottom of her crib most mornings and sometimes even sideways!

Ashley is taking her first trip downtown tomorrow! We'll post some pictures and videos soon!

We're Home

We've been homes three full days now. Ashley had her first doctor visit on Tuesday and many, many diaper changes! Pete is a pro!

The Doctor said she looked great and already gained 3oz since Saturday night! He said she looked like a c-section baby since her head was shaped well and her skin looked so healthy.

Sunday and Monday nights were pretty easy - waking up 2-3 times (Ashley only woke up on her own once - I had to wake her to feed since she had such a weight drop at the hospital). Tuesday night, She went down around midnight and I woke up at 4pm (expecting she would wake me sooner) and she was slightly awake. I fed her changed her (she had good timing!) and put back to bed. I woke up at 8 and could hear her making some noises but not crying. I was shocked that she only woke up once over night and I was able to sleep 6 hours. I hope that lasts!!

She also sleeps a lot during the day. She is on a schedule to feed every 2-3 hours during the day and that's mainly the only times she's awake and active.

Pete's been doing "tummy time" with her daily. We're impressed at how well she can hold up her head already!

She's too good to be true!

Comments:

Auntie Tricia: Wow, you guys certainly went through a journey to be parents, and now look--a baby you can hardly believe, she is such an angel! I am so happy and grateful you were blessed by such a wonderful little girl.

She's Here!

I kept thinking I wouldn't know when I was in labor since I had contractions since the beginning on the third trimester. So, I was happy when my water broke at 7:15 this morning. I yelled to Pete to get up. I got in the shower since I figured it was going to be awhile until I could shower again and then called the dr and they said to head to the hospital.

Pete packed up the car with suitcases and prepared a bag and towel for me to sit on. I had some nervous energy and was straightening up the house a bit. While we headed to the hospital, I called my mom to give her the news and during the ride the painful contractions started at 3-4 minutes apart.

We got to hospital and they tested to make sure my water really broke and it did. Contractions were kinda painful but Dr. Chang said they were not as painful as she wanted them to be!! They set me up in a room and dr ordered pitocin to increase the contractions. I asked for the epidural right away and luckily they got it started pretty fast. This was the best choice ever! I was 3-4 cm at 9:40am and then by 3:30 I was at 10cm and barely felt a thing!

They had me start pushing around 4pm and around 6, the Dr. decided to use the vacuum. Thank God!! She came out after a couple pushes!

Still can't believe she's here!

Comments:
Anne & Don Anderson: She's beautiful!!
Love from Ashely's Great Uncle Don and Great Aunt Anne : )

Jamie Mills: Yay....congrats you guys...so happy for you both. Enjoy every moment with Ashley. Can't wait to meet her. Let us know if you need anything at all...